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#1 stereotype that destroys man's confidence
Diving Deep into the Real Deal on Gender Vibes and Sex Myths
Let's begin by breaking the number one stereotype that destroys man's confidence when approaching women.
Ready for a long post?
Here's a question for you:
Who needs sex more? Men or women?
You probably answered "men of course".
Now for the second question:
Who craves sex more? Men or women?
You likely responded with men. However, that's where the problem lies. Men or hitting on a woman with this mentality, with this stereotype puts her in a winning position.
Since before approaching you, you already mentally put yourself beneath her.
So to successfully attract a woman, you need to approach with a mindset that she needs you more.
She is interested in you more than you in her. She wants you more than you want her. And surprisingly, this is actually the truth. Women crave sex a thousand times more than men do.
They desire men a thousand times more than men desire women. And on top of that, women think about sex 24/7.
Lions vs Spiders
The reason why it may not be apparent to you that women desire sex more than men is because women have a different style of expressing their sexual desires and different style of hunting for sex.
I like to compare male and female sexuality to predators when I compare lions and spiders.
Both are predators, but lions show their intentions right away. When they see their prey, they go after it, running to catch it.
That's how men's sexuality is. When they see a woman that they like, they come to her straight away, right away, telling her all his intentions, such as "hey, you're cute, can I have your phone number?"
And we all know that it usually doesn't work.
On the other hand, female sexuality is similar to a spider style. They are also predators, they also hunt, and they also want to fulfill their desires.
However, they wait for their prey to come into their web. Women are very afraid to show their sexual desires and intentions openly, which is truly amazing how well they hide it from men.
They think that if they show their interest to a man, they will become vulnerable and that you might take advantage of them. And that's often true.
The reason why women are skilled at manipulating men is not that women are extremely inherently smarter, but because men show their intentions and their desires right away, opening all their cards right away, making them immediately vulnerable to manipulations.
On the other hand, women will hide their sexual desires until the very last moment.
Once you get into a relationship with a girl, and those who have lived with women can probably relate to what I'm about to say, she will be all over you.
Craving for sex from you all the time. I've felt that all the women that I've been with think and want to have sex with me 24/7 once we start living together.
Sometimes I would want to do other things like reading books, playing video games, or study, but all my girls would talk, think, discuss sex 24/7.
There is no stopping them.
And it's not just one woman like that. It's been the same with all the women that I've been with.
However, during the seduction process, before I seduced them, I would never thought that they wanted me so badly.
They would act completely ignorant and pretend they didn't want me until the very end.
Trust me, I've been with enough women to confirm that women think about sex 24/7.
Regarding the differences in sexuality between men and women, I gained a profound understanding through my gay friend.
I once said on my twiiter that I have a gay friend, and I must admit, I learned so much about women from him.
However, it's important for me to clarify that he wasn't simply a gay person. He has a mental, it was an abnormality, like mental disorder. He had a female brain trapped in an adult man's body.
I met him when I worked in a hotel and he was my supervisor. Every time I talked to him, I noticed that he speaks and he builds his sentences just like women.
He talked too much, struggling to come up with some kind of conclusions, getting lost in directions, and experiencing panic over minor stuff.
Moreover, he was very interested in straight, masculine men, over feminine men, and he despised gay people.
This newfound understanding was an opportunity for me to learn from him about how females think.
Since he was half a man, he could share with me his deepest secrets about his mind. And as I compared it to women thinking, I noticed that his thoughts resonated with how women think.
Essentially, he was a legitimate woman in a man's body. These relevations shed light on why women tend to conceal their intentions and sexual desires, which I had mentioned earlier, as it makes them feel vulnerable. So this notion was indeed true.
During my interactions with my gay friend, I realized why he disliked feminine and gay men so much.
Many of gay people, they are not really gay. They are still men. They still have this male brain. They just take an easy path, going out with gay people without the men who understand each other better.
At my hotel job, which the staff most of it was gay, and the general manager were gay people, I observed how gay people interact with each other.
Their approach was very straightforward, resembling the behavior of lions in pursuit for the prey.
This is how it usually would go.
One gay person met another random gay person who he liked and he says "Hey, what's up, what's up, do you want me to suck your cock?"
And the other guy will be like "Yes, let's go!"
And they go to the bathroom and they do their thing.
There was no attraction game, no intrigue. It seemed rather mundane and not interesting. Such behavior is something that women would never engage.
One time when I finished my work in Sarasota, Florida, it was night, I was going to my car and the other car pulled up to me and it was like the hottest girl I've ever seen was asking me for directions.
So she asked me how to go somewhere, I forgot where she asked me for. So I told her directions and then her next question was "Hey, do you want me to suck your cock?"
And at that moment I already knew everything about female psychology and I immediately realized that she's a trans. Not a single woman in the world with a female brain would offer something straightforward like that.
Only men do.
And I politely declined of course, but by looking at her and the way she talked, he talked, you would never think it was a man.
I realized that in the way how she expressed his sexual desire, very straightforward. Only men do stuff like that.
As a result, a lot of men make this common mistake when approaching women.
Or generally when men build communication with other people. I receive DMs on a daily basis. Guys DMing me "Hey Alex, I like your content, what is your phone number? Give me your phone number, I would like to talk to you, I want to ask you for something."
Of course, those people don't understand that I will never share my phone numbers with them, who the hell are you?
For me to give some stranger on the internet my phone number just because you want to talk to me, who the hell are you?
Would you be comfortable to giving out your phone number to strangers on the internet? Of course no.
The same approach comes to when you are approaching women.
When you come up to a girl and say "Hey girl, I like you, can I have your phone number?" Who the hell are you for her to give you your phone number?
And keep in mind, women are very scared creatures, they are afraid of everything. The first thought that comes in their mind when you approach them, "Oh it's a rapist, or it's a murderer, or it's a killer, it's a serial killer."
That's what goes through their mind. This approach is an immediate turn off for every woman.
That's why those standard pick up lines don't work on women. I've done about 1000 approaches like that and I got rejected 999 times.
I see other guys making the same mistake, making those stupid approaches without understanding female brain, female nature, female sexuality and they continue with those direct and bold approaches, facing rejections and it hits on your confidence and your self-esteem and you have zero positive outcome.
So in short, those approaches are not effective. Forget about them.
All those videos that you see guys do those approaches, do those pick up lines on YouTube, it's all fake, it's all staged.
The reason why those pick up lines will never work on a woman is because it clashes with female nature.
And it's also a defense mechanism not only for women but also for men. I once experienced it when the hottest woman I've ever seen, she was a little tipsy, it was like in one of those after the nightclub, came up to me, said "I'm the most handsome guy she has ever seen and she wants to get my phone number" and I automatically rejected her saying "No thanks, I'm waiting for my girlfriend" even though I was alone at the nightclub.
Later I wondered why the hell did I mumble that I have a girlfriend, she was the hottest girl ever.
But it was my instincts that our defense mechanisms, similarly women reject guys all the time, there are a lot of jokes.
"No thanks, I have a boyfriend" They do that every time they see a guy approaches them directly.
Another example of differences in sexuality between men and females is that women often dream they have those fantasies about being dominated, raped, humiliated or gang bang.
Men on the other hand dream about dominating a partner. Men can get turned on by sniffing dirty panties of a woman.
Twitch explains why a lot of Instagram girls get DMs on a daily basis, men offer an insane amount of money for her to wear her panties for a week and then seal it in a ziplock and send it to them.
Our girl Amaranth on Twitch has decided to carry on the torch selling her own farts and jars for $1000 a pop. In a tweet from Amaranth she says "I started a new business, have you ever wanted to smell your favorite streamer or own their hot tub water in physical form not in NFT? Say less!"
Oh my god that's gonna be in the thumbnail! Ethically sourced, made in the USA.
However, this would never turn on a woman, she would find it gross. My point is, women constantly think and crave sex, just like men do. However, their sexuality is different and they have different style of attraction, where they don't openly show their intentions until the very end.
Once you understand it and absorb it, your confidence in approaching women will soar.
You will realize that she wants sex just as much as you do, if not more, but in a different way.
Meeting girls on the streets and immediately revealing all your intentions with pick up lines such as "hey girl I like you, can I have your phone number" is a mismatch with female sexuality, which is why it never works.
In my upcoming videos in this course I will reveal a different approach to meeting women, which actually aligns better with female nature and female sexuality.
For now remember that women desire sex.
They desire a man, they desire a cock, and they need sex 1000 times more than men do.
Understanding this information will help you boost your confidence and understand that women want to be fucked, and she needs a man more than you need a woman.
Men provide women too many things, security, stability, money, a place to live, presents, all kinds of perks.
And women in return don't really give you anything back, so women desperately need a man.
So let this information sit in you, realize that, I don't know, I hope I was convincing, I hope I was able to convince you that female sexuality is different and they do want to get fucked.
So next time, every time someone asks you a question "who needs sex more, men or women?", your answer must be, it's always women.
Talk soon,
Alex