Navigating the First Date: Easy Meetup Tips for Success

Now, some details will help you when it comes to the how of meeting up.

The very first thing you're gonna wanna keep in mind is that however you're meeting up should be easy for her because the whole point of this is that she gets to the place.

So if you make the meetup plan too complicated or inconvenient for her, then you've done something wrong.

♪ Why the hell are they gonna make things so complicated ♪ - So always make sure that that's the very first thing that you're thinking about.

After that though, there are some subtle things you can do that can make things even better for you.

For example, one thing to keep in mind if it's an online date or a date through an app like Tinder is that you want a comfortable way for the two of you to be able to meet up and the two of you to be able to separate if need be.

So she's probably gonna wanna just take care of her transportation by herself.

Again, if the comfort levels are higher, you don't have to do this that way.

For example, I've had girls let me know that they don't have a car.

And so in that case, you wanna make it more convenient for them by offering a way for them to get there such as you picking them up or providing some kind of transportation.

Always defer back to that first step of making sure it's easy and convenient for her to get there.

That said, if it's online, there's a good chance that she's gonna wanna have her car so she can have an escape route if things aren't going well.

It's not because of you, don't take that personally, it's because of her experiences in the past and her needing a way to feel safe and make sure she can take care of herself if things aren't going the way that she expected. I can't get out that way. - Looks like you managed to cut off her only escape route. - Maybe you'd like it back in your cell, your highness. - If you already have more comfort with this person or even just in the online communication, they feel connected and comfortable with you through that, then there's another great technique you can use which is to meet at your place first and then travel together from there.

There are a couple of cool advantages that come out of this.

Advantage number one, you can allow her to come up to your place and see it for a second by saying, oh hey, there was actually this one more thing that I just need to do real quick, why don't you come up just for a minute and then we'll leave together.

If you do this, it provides her a chance to briefly spend a little bit of time in your place and it's important to know that you say that it's brief, that it's only gonna take a minute, right?

You're not hanging out there, you're just stopping by there but that means that if she ever comes back to your place later, it's a place that she's already seen, she's already comfortable in and that's a great advantage for when things are going to get more in between the two of you, that she's already been to that spot and she knows that it's a place that she can feel good in and comfortable in and that she's seen before.

Even if she doesn't come up to your place, there's still another great advantage to meeting up first, which is that you can reduce the number of cars that you're taking on the date.

By offering to drive or by say ordering an Uber or some other car service to take the two of you there, you've made things easier logistically 'cause you now no longer have two people worrying about directions, two people worrying about driving, two people worrying about parking.

If you're driving, it's down to one person and if you're just calling Ubers or some other car service, then neither of you need to worry about that and that just takes the pressure off of that logistical point and lets you get right to the date in a clean, effective, fun way where you don't have to worry about all that stuff and you can get right to the good part.

The good part by the way is the two of you spending time together, getting a chance to bond and connect on whatever fun activity that you had planned.

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