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Dissecting Dating Myths and Realities
Hey there!
In this email, we're going to explore the fascinating world of modern romance and how misunderstandings can sometimes affect our relationships.
We'll take a journey through the complex dating scene, discovering how it can greatly impact our self-esteem and the way men and women interact with each other.
Ready for some eye-opening insights?
A factor that undermines men's confidence when interacting with women is the misconception that women have an easier time in the dating market.
Men believe that because women receive a lot of attention from men online and in real life, they can easily have sex or find a boyfriend whenever they want.
There have been numerous studies and experiments that show even an average-looking woman can receive a large number of matches on Tinder within a week.
Even an overweight woman can have thousands of men competing for her attention.
Additionally, if an attractive woman lives in America, many men believe she can easily find a millionaire partner at any time.
This false perception can have negative effects on men's relationships with women. If a man believes that the woman he is dating or pursuing has countless options, he may struggle to establish boundaries and this can lead to unhealthy dynamics in the relationship.
He may fear saying the wrong thing or worry that she will leave him for someone better at any moment.
While it is true that women desire sex and want to find a boyfriend, it is nearly impossible for them to find a suitable partner.
This further supports my point that there is intense competition among women for decent men.
Imagine yourself as a woman, particularly an attractive and young one.
If the myth about women having it easy in the dating world were true, where would you go to find a millionaire?
Let's say you are an 18 or 19-year-old girl. If you create an Instagram profile and try to grow your following, you may attract attention from men by showing off your body.
Let's say you reach 100,000 followers and receive numerous date invitations. Out of those followers, let's assume there are 100 millionaires.
However, women have their instincts. While men have an instinct to spread their seed and have sex with as many women as possible, women have an instinct to choose the best man out of many.
They have the instinct to find the most suitable partner.
Additionally, women have fears and concerns.
Imagine walking down the street and feeling vulnerable to potential harm from any man you encounter. Now, imagine having thousands of men messaging you every day, trying to take you on a date.
How would you know who the good guy is?
Let's say you want to find a millionaire and you have 100 millionaires in your DMs.
Firstly, there are not many millionaires out there, especially ones below the age of 30.
Most millionaires are around 40 to 45 years old. By the time they become millionaires, they are often married with children and focused on running their businesses.
Becoming a millionaire at a young age does not guarantee success in relationships either.
The chances of meeting a millionaire in her age range who is not married are slim.
Furthermore, there is no guarantee that he will stay with her, which would trigger her fear of being used and abandoned.
It is important to consider these factors and put yourself in a woman's shoes before making assumptions about their dating experiences.
Have you ever noticed that NBA players and celebrities rarely date ordinary people?
There's a reason for that.
They have the opportunity to be with anyone they want, the most desirable woman in the world. They choose to date other celebrities.
This is because they are aware of something that regular women know too. Just because someone like Drake is interested in them doesn't mean he will commit to a relationship.
He may just use them and move on. This lack of certainty scares decent women.
On the other hand, prostitutes, escorts, and similar individuals have no issue dating these types of men.
But if you find yourself dating someone like that, my question to you is, why would you choose to be with someone like that or build a family with them?
Let's consider a young millionaire, for example. Who could be a millionaire under the age of 30? Usually, it's someone in the IT field, a bit of a geek.
While they may be successful in their business, they often lack the skills to attract and communicate with women.
Many of them remain inexperienced and struggle to connect with women.
This lack of confidence and congruence is a major turnoff for women, regardless of their bank account.
So, even if you manage to find a young millionaire, they likely have very little free time due to their responsibilities. Have any of you ever run a business or even a small YouTube channel?
It consumes all your time.
Running a business is no joke. It demands all your time and energy. Therefore, it's nearly impossible for a woman to find a millionaire who will commit to a relationship.
If we consider the average millionaire, they are usually in their 40s or 45s and already married. Additionally, most 18-year-old girls are not attracted to men in that age range, regardless of their wealth.
These women are typically interested in men between the ages of 27 and 35. So, finding a millionaire for a woman is highly unlikely.
Even if by some chance she does find one, it won't be through online platforms. I won't reveal where women can find millionaires just yet.
That information will be covered in the next emails.
But I want to emphasize that just because a woman receives attention from many men doesn't mean she is pursuing them.
From my extensive interviews with women, I can confidently say that very few have met their boyfriends through dating apps or social media platforms like Instagram.
I have never come across a woman who met a guy on the street in all my interviews.
We will delve deeper into this topic in the upcoming emails.
Let's say, hypothetically, she does manage to meet a millionaire. When did she meet him? Was it when she was 24 or 25?
Because trust me, if this guy young millionaire, found a guy like that, that millionaire will be interested in the girl who will be 18, 20 years old, 24 top, OK, 27 top.
So female years of prime are very limited. Like you see women don't have it easier out there.
It doesn't matter how much money you have, it doesn't matter how much fame you have. Women will still leave you if you don't understand how to break a woman, how to emotionally fulfill her, and how to talk to women.
You have to talk to her like a child.
So what are the chances that that millionaire will have the same knowledge that I have who knows how to break a woman, how to fulfill a woman for her to make her happy?
Because if he is not going to break his woman, she is going to humiliate him and leave him.
Take a look at the example of Jada Pinkett.
She humiliates Will Smith 24/7.
What is the craziest rumor you have ever heard about your family? That Will and I are swingers. That's the craziest.
What is that kind of recent one? It's constant. And I'm like, yo, I wish. Damn.
How about this situation with Steve Harvey? Steve Harvey who has a show where he talks about a relationship, married a woman. And every time I watch his show when he talks about relationships, I can see this motherfucker doesn't know what he's talking about.
His woman allegedly cheated on him with a security guard.
Some days I'd be willing to trade my man for a good what? Poor boy. A good what? I'm sorry. What did you just say?
We've seen Steve Harvey abandoning his kids and wife, and then Marjorie popped into the picture.
Plus, there was also that drama with Lori and MBJ.
But now things have escalated to a whole new level.
Steve's beloved wife, Marjorie Harvey, has come into the spotlight once again because she was allegedly caught cheating on Steve.
And not just with one person, two of their staff. One, a chef at the house, and the other, Steve's bodyguard.
The guy, Johnny Depp. Amber Heard, humiliated and destroyed him.
So you see, your money, like, OK, even if you meet some famous millionaire guy, there is like a huge chance that this guy doesn't know Jack about female psychology and he's going to break his boundaries for her.
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She's not going to be happy with him.
And if he doesn't fulfill her female instincts, her instincts will be constantly on the lookout for another man.
You know what I mean?
So the chances of a woman meeting a millionaire guy is slim to none.
It's like winning a lottery. And again, where does she meet him?
Let's say I become a millionaire guy like me.
I understand female psychology, I'm masculine, and I know how to control women, and how to fulfill female desires.
But again, if I'm going to look at you, how am I going to find you?
Through Instagram? Do you have your teeth ass out there? You think I'm going to marry a woman like that?
Fucking hell no. So you see, it's just like... Listen, guys. Female biggest, like I like how Myron from Prussian Feet said one time, "The female biggest, strongest weapon," I think he said, "is when a guy doesn't understand his power."
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As you understand that it's important to win conflicts, it's important to take the leading role.
Like 99.9% of men don't understand it.
And women have no chance to be happy with those men.
So you are the prize at this point. I hope you guys understand like your prize, that you are the prize.
This is the mentality that you have to have when you're dating a woman.
Trust me, like just when this email is over, think about it. Imagine you're a beautiful woman. Where do you find another guy?
Where do you find a millionaire?
It's just impossible.
So understand your power like a lot of people writing me in the comments, "Alex, I don't know what you do to me. For some reason suddenly I start seducing a lot of women around me."
Well, because in emails, I explain to you what type of power you have as a man.
You have to realize that you are the man.
And now I'm here to tell you that women don't have it easier out there on the dating market.
Even with regular guys, like let's say she doesn't want to find a millionaire.
She wants to find a regular guy.
You know what I mean? Where do you go to find a regular guy who wouldn't just fuck her or leave her?
This is why it's really if you pay attention to where women meet men, how do they become a couple?
It's usually from friends of friends.
It's never from the street. It's never she met him on the street.
Or it's very rare when it's like online dating. Very rare.
Even when I was doing my online dating 24/7, was getting like 100 matches a day, I still never dated those women.
I dated the girls who were from my social circle, you know what I mean? And I'll explain to you how to create that social circle.
So yeah, understand your power as a man that women don't have it easier.
Talk to you soon
Alex